Addressing the Pandemic: Domestic Violence

In Australia, domestic violence is a pressing issue, profoundly impacting communities across the nation. Recent statistics reveal a harrowing picture: The rate of women killed by an intimate partner in Australia increased by nearly 30% in 2022-23, compared to the previous year, according to data released by the Australian Institute of Criminology this week. Every 4 days a woman is killed in an act of domestic violence. These are not just statistics; it is the reality that many women and children live with, leading to significant social and economic costs.

The repercussions extend beyond immediate physical harm, affecting mental health, workplace performance, and straining healthcare and judicial systems. Domestic violence is not a "women's issue" - it is a societal problem that demands attention from all of us, especially men.

Men must engage actively in this conversation. Domestic violence thrives in silence, and by speaking out, supporting affected individuals and challenging abusive behaviours, men can play a vital role in breaking the cycle of violence.

During a recent Q&A program, Jon Owen voiced a poignant critique, stating that "Royal Commissions are for lawyers – we need change and support for women now!" His statement underscores the urgency of addressing domestic violence NOT through prolonged, expensive inquiries but through immediate, tangible support and reforms that protect and empower victims immediately. As someone who has delivered Men's Behaviour change programs, I am frustrated that government funding has ceased or slowed in most states in Australia and at a time when it is most needed.

Men's involvement can shift harmful cultural norms and contribute to a more supportive environment for survivors seeking justice and safety. Initiatives like White Ribbon Australia, Amnesty International and Our Watch emphasise the importance of male advocacy in ending domestic violence.

Every action counts. As community members, colleagues, friends and leaders, men have the responsibility and the power to make a difference. Together, we can work towards a society where everyone is safe.